4 Simple Steps to Get a Guy to Want You So Bad | Getting your Man

2. Don’t be too available. After you have him right where you want him from flirting, you need to be sure that you are not too available to him. If he asks you out on a first date, it is okay to agree to the original day he suggests if you are really free that day. However, for the subsequent dates, you need to tell him you think you have something going on that day and then suggest another day, perhaps a few days away from the initial day that he suggested. This will show him that you have other things going on in your life and that he will not have to worry about you being too clingy.

3. Be touchy feely, but not too much. Getting a guy to want you is very easy when you are sure to touch them every now and then. Whether it is a pat on the arm or you “accidentally” graze his hand with yours, it does not matter. Just do not do it too much or he may think you are weird.

4. Be friendly. Guys tend to not like girls who are mean to them. So, if getting a guy is important to you, then you need to be sure that you are very sweet and friendly to him and others that you come in contact with while out on a date with him. After all, you want to get a boyfriend – not a restraining order.